Bank of Mum and Dad survey: Key results
Money.com.au surveyed more than 1,000 Australians to find out how parents are helping their children to buy homes and what happens after the money changes hands. This is what we found:
- 46% of Australians got help from the Bank of Mum and Dad to buy their first home
- Among younger Aussies the number is much higher, with 78% of Gen Z buyers saying they received parental help
- Among those who received a cash gift, the average value was $53,451
- 23% of recipients were gifted more than $100,000
- The average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift is equivalent to around 8.5% of the average Australian first-home-buyer loan.
- 64% of recipients had no formal written agreement with their parents
How many Australians get help from the Bank of Mum and Dad to buy a home?
Money.com.au’s analysis shows that more than 67,000 Australians may have received some form of help from the Bank of Mum and Dad to buy a home in the past 12 months.
The estimate is based on our survey data, which shows that 46% of first-home buyers received financial support from their parents (including living at home rent-free), and ABS lending data showing that 146,542 first-home buyer loans were issued over the past year.
The true number today could be higher. Younger Australians, who are more likely to have bought their first home recently, reported much higher rates of parental assistance than older generations.
In fact, Gen Z first-home buyers are more than three times as likely as Baby Boomers to have received parental help buying their first home.
Here’s the full generational breakdown:
- Gen Z: 78% received some form of financial assistance to buy their first home
- Millennials: 55% received some form of financial assistance to buy their first home
- Gen X: 38% received some form of financial assistance to buy their first home
- Baby Boomers: 25% received some form of financial assistance to buy their first home
How exactly is the Bank of Mum and Dad helping first home buyers?
Our survey found that the most common form of Bank of Mum and Dad assistance is a cash gift. Around 1 in 5 (20%) first-home buyers got a cash gift. This was followed by the 14% of Australians who lived at home rent-free while saving for a deposit (14%).
The third most common form of Bank of Mum and Dad assistance is having parents act as guarantors on a home loan (13%).
The survey found that around 12% of first-home buyers received a cash advance or loan from their parents.
Overall, 54% of respondents didn't receive any financial assistance at all from the Bank of Mum and Dad. However, the bulk of these were older Australians who likely bought their first home under very different economic and property market conditions.
How much money is the Bank of Mum and Dad gifting their kids?
Money.com.au’s data indicates that the average cash gift from the Bank of Mum and Dad is $53,451. This is despite a third of Australians that were given financial aid from their parents (31%) only receiving funds between $10,000-$24,999.
Yet, 23% of respondents say that they were gifted $100,000 or more from their parents towards their home deposit. This is followed by 17% that received less than $10,000, 17% that got between $25,000-$49,999, as well as 13% that were given $50,000-$99,999.
Residents living in Western Australia received the highest cash gift amount from their parents, with an average of $56,999. This is followed by Victorian residents receiving an average of $55,714 and NSW residents that were gifted $54,999.
People living in South Australia were given the least amount on average at $39,999.
The table below shows how the Bank of Mum and Dad’s generosity translates as a percentage of the average first home buyer home loan in each of the largest states. Even though they’re not quite as generous as WA parents in dollar terms, parents in Victoria are, on average, getting the most bang for their buck as when it comes to the gift as a percentage of their children’s home loans.
State | Australia |
|---|---|
Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | $53,451 |
Average FHB loan | $627,000 |
Gift as % of average FHB loan | 8.5% |
State | VIC |
Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | $55,714 |
Average FHB loan | $561,689 |
Gift as % of average FHB loan | 9.9% |
State | NSW |
Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | $54,999 |
Average FHB loan | $683,265 |
Gift as % of average FHB loan | 8.0% |
State | QLD |
Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | $47,941 |
Average FHB loan | $638,467 |
Gift as % of average FHB loan | 7.5% |
State | SA |
Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | $39,999 |
Average FHB loan | $579,964 |
Gift as % of average FHB loan | 6.9% |
| State | Average Bank of Mum and Dad cash gift | Average FHB loan | Gift as % of average FHB loan |
|---|---|---|---|
Australia | $53,451 | $627,000 | 8.5% |
VIC | $55,714 | $561,689 | 9.9% |
NSW | $54,999 | $683,265 | 8.0% |
QLD | $47,941 | $638,467 | 7.5% |
SA | $39,999 | $579,964 | 6.9% |
Where in Australia is the Bank of Mum and Dad most commonly used?
Let’s slice the state-by-state numbers differently now, looking at where in the country most borrowers get help from the Bank of Mum and Dad, and how parents are helping in different locations.
Our analysis shows that homeowners from Victoria (52%) are the most likely to receive help from their parents when entering the property market. A quarter of Victorian home-buyers (25%) are gifted cash from the Bank of Mum and Dad, with 17% living with their parents rent-free for a period of time.
New South Wales is the second most likely state (49%) to need financial help from their parents to buy a house, with 21% receiving a cash gift. This is followed by cash advance or loan and living rent-free (16%), and then listing their parents as guarantors (15%).
Less than half of South Australian (42%) and Queensland (40%) residents needed help from the Bank of Mum and Dad, followed by 39% of Western Australian home-buyers.
Bank of Mum and Dad: Handshake or legal agreement?
Unlike actual lenders, the Bank of Mum and Dad tends to operate on trust rather than paperwork. Our research found that 64% of first-home buyers who received parental assistance did so without a formal written agreement in place.
Of those, 21% said the arrangement was based on an informal 'handshake' agreement between parents and their children.
By comparison, only 36% of first-home buyers formalised the arrangement with a legally binding written agreement.
Money.com.au’s Mortgage Expert, Nick Burgess, says family support can be invaluable, but it's important to document the arrangement clearly from the outset.

Nick Burgess, Money.com.au’s Mortgage Expert
“The most common source of family conflict is if money provided by parents was intended as a gift or a loan. That's a distinction families should be clear on from the outset, because lenders will generally require a letter confirming whether parental financial support is being provided as a genuine gift or a loan when assessing a mortgage application.
While this satisfies the lender, it doesn't protect the family because it doesn't address what happens if the property is sold, the owners separate, or if family dynamics change. For example, I've seen family disputes emerge years after a property purchase because there was never a clear agreement about whether the deposit was intended for their child alone or for the couple jointly."
Nick Burgess, Money.com.au’s Mortgage Expert
What families put in writing when using the Bank of Mum and Dad
Among first-home buyers who had a formal agreement in place, nearly half (46%) specified whether the parental contribution was a genuine gift or a loan that would need to be repaid.
Nearly two in five (39%) outlined what would happen to the parents' contribution if the buyer separated from their partner, while 23% included provisions for repaying the Bank of Mum and Dad if the property was sold.
Only 14% addressed ownership rights or equity-sharing arrangements, like whether parents who contributed funds would retain a financial interest in the property.

Kent Dalziel, Director of The Estate Lawyers
“If parents are providing a loan to their child and their son or daughter-in-law, and the relationship later breaks down, the Family Court may consider that payment to be a gift rather than a loan. Essentially, to truly be considered a loan, there should be a signed loan agreement, some form of security, and regular repayments should be made. These don’t need to include interest, but the loan needs to actually be in the process of being repaid for the Family Court to treat the payment as a loan and not as a gift disguised as a loan.”
Kent Dalziel, Director of The Estate Lawyers
Does the Bank of Mum and Dad distribute funds evenly amongst siblings?
Almost half of Australian parents (45%) say that they plan to help all of their children equally when entering the property market. While one in four (25%) said that they’ll provide different levels of support to each child depending on their circumstances or need.
This is followed by 21% of parents that don’t plan to provide any financial support to their children, and 9% who say that they will only help the most financially responsible child.

Kent Dalziel, Director of The Estate Lawyers
“If parents loan or gift money to their children in their lifetime, this is something that must be considered in the Mum and Dad’s Will and estate planning. The terms of the agreement should be clear and documented to avoid potential fights between siblings after the death of Mum and Dad. If the payment was a gift to one child, but another child did not receive the same gift, will that cause an issue? The disappointed child might seek money from the estate to ensure “fair” treatment.”
Kent Dalziel, Director of The Estate Lawyers
Why do so many first home buyers rely on the Bank of Mum and Dad?
The Bank of Mum and Dad has become a lifeline for many first-home buyers struggling to break into the property market.
According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, the average first-home buyer loan has increased from $169,789 in 2002 to $614,048 today — up more than 260%, making it far harder for many Australians to enter the property market without family assistance.
In contrast, the average annual salary only grew 100% during that period, with wages increasing from $45,697 to $106,657.
About this research
Money.com.au commissioned the survey from Pureprofile in May 2026, with a nationally representative sample of more than 1,000 Australians. The data was weighted and stratified by age, gender and location to reflect the Australian population.

